It’s a New Season
Spring is here!! And it’s about time. Sometimes the winter months can be long and can take a toll on us mentally and emotionally. Just like the grass and flowers have new growth for the new season, this is the perfect time to breathe some fresh air and life into our marriages. Does your marriage need a refresh? I’m a firm believer that just like we do spring cleaning every year our relationships need to have that refreshing.
Quality Time & Road Trips
Spring means the ending of the school year and graduation season is upon us. My wife and I went to her friend’s graduation. This was road trip to Chicago to support someone who is important to her. Besides, I always enjoy a good road trip. With two children under the age of four, it can make for interesting road trips. When the kids went to sleep my wife and I were able to enjoy the rest of the trip just like when we were dating. It’s a couple of hours of us driving, talking, and laughing. It is truly one of the best things for a quality time person such as myself. It’s like a refresher for us and a chance to solidify our connection.
I shared this story to show that we need those moments from time to time where we need those opportunities to reconnect. Spring is the sign that new life is coming out from the doldrums of winter. The same can be with our marriages and relationships. Here are three date ideas that will help to spark some new life into our marriages.
Date Ideas
Road Trips
the great thing about road trips is that you don’t need a specific destination or a lot of money. Just get in the car and go. Hit the highway in any direction and see where it takes you. Being in a car with someone forces you into an intimate time. You’re too close to in proximity to be distanced mentally and emotionally. Enjoy the road and enjoy each others company.
Go to the beach for your own spring break
While the water may not be ready for you to swim in, pretend you’re dating again and pack a picnic full of all your favorites. Hit the beach or your favorite spot that has a great view and enjoy your picnic.
Pick a book for this season
How often do you and your spouse read a book together? Do you like fiction? Does he like nonfiction? Does he like sci-fi while you like romance? What about finding a book you both will love? Take some time and find a book you’ll both enjoy, then read you’ll be able to talk about it together over dinner or a nice night walking.
What do you like to do in the spring to breathe life into your marriage?
