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3 Things Keeping You from God

God’s Plan

Are we on the path that God has for us? He is giving us direction, but are we listening? Are we confident in that still small voice that speaks to us? Everyday, people question themselves and wonder if God is truly directing their lives. I know for myself, I have gone through times where I wonder if God has heard my prayers. I wonder if I’m on that straight and narrow path that leads to Him.

There are many things around us that can keep us from fulfilling the vision that God has for us. Here are three things that can keep from doing what God as called us to do and how we can overcome them.

1. Distractions.

We live in a world full of distractions. Our world is full of them. They are ready and willing to take your attention. Everything from Facebook to work to family can offer a distraction to what God has called us to do. We seem to have a microwave type of attention span and God doesn’t work that way.

Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

This is how we overcome distractions. We have to fight to focus on God. From the moment we wake up in the morning until we go to bed at night. That may seem extreme, but think about it. What is the first thing you do in the morning? For most people they look for their cell phone and get on social media. We’ve gotten to the point that we do this without thinking about it. So we have to fight to focus from the beginning of the day. We only fight for those things that are a priority. God has to be a priority.

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2. Emotions.

A lot of times our emotions drive us. They drive us sometimes when we are not thinking about it. Our emotions can steer us away from God if we are not careful. A lot of times we think that because people go to church they will act differently than people who don’t. We elevate them to such a high standard that they can’t maintain that standard even if they tried. We let things like anger and pride creep in because someone at the church did something to us and that steers us away from God.

3. Out of Balance Priorities.

When our life seems out of control, most times it can be traced to our priorities being out of line. We’ve moved something or someone higher on our list than they need to be.

Exodus 20:3 Thou shalt have no other gods before me.

The best way to overcome an out of balanced priority lifestyle is to have an inner circle that can speak into your life. People that have the green light to tell you when they see something that may be out of balance. People that you will listen to and not get defensive with.

While there are many things that will try to pull us away from God, if we can fight to focus on Him, there will be great things that He will do through us.

Quality Time with God

Quality time together

One of the five love languages is Quality Time. This is the love language that speaks the most to me. I believe it’s great to have quality time with the one you love. It’s essential to building a strong foundation to your relationship and then the longer that you are together it becomes more important. As a relationship matures spending quality time together keeps you connected. Just like we need quality time with our spouse, we need quality time with God. Here are two reasons why quality time with God is important.

1. A solid foundation.

Like a natural relationship, quality time is essential to the start of your relationship. When we are first dating, we spend every moment of time together. We look and make time to spend with that person. When we first come to know God and accept Him into our lives, it’s like seeing the world with the new relationship goggles on. We see God in every ray of sunshine, we see Him in the clouds, we see Him in the smell of fresh grass in the morning.

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Having a new relationship with God makes it so that we can have our Bible just fall open and He will speak to us. We feel His presence in every worship song. Every message we hear seems to speak to our hearts and the situation that we’re in. It is in this newness of the relationship that we set our foundation in Him.

2. Keeps you together over time.

There are so many couples today that get divorced when the kids move out of the house. They realize that over the past 18 years, their lives have revolved around the kids so much that they feel like they don’t know each other anymore.

Over time our relationship with God can become “stale.” It can feel like we are doing the same things over and over. Go to church every week, read my Bible, try to pray everyday, this can be the routine that we fall into. This becomes the routine of our walk with God and we neglect the relationship with God. Having quality time with your spouse over the long term can keep your relationship fresh. As couples grow together they learn different skills and hobbies. Having quality time together allows us to share those new skills and hobbies.

We have to be proactive about our relationship with God too. God should be given the highest priority in our lives. Spending quality time with God keeps the things we do everyday from getting stale.

How do you keep your relationship with God fresh?

 

What’s Your Assignment?

The Assignment

Do you have an assignment from God? Are we all really called to do something great? If so, is it possible to know what exactly is this great assignment?

I’m a firm believer that the answer to these questions and many others that we have about our assignment from God is “Yes!”. We are called to do something great. There is something specific that each of us needs to do with our lives.

Does God Have a Plan For Me?

Jeremiah 29:11(ESV)
11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.

God has a great future for us! How do we know what His plan is for us is? How do we begin to walk out that plan?

How to Find the Plan

Through seeking God we begin to know what He has in store for us. This part must be intentional. So many times we pray about direction and clarity, only to sit around and do nothing. Our mindset can be that God is just going to place everything into our laps.

I don’t think that God gives us the whole picture of our assignment all at once. Many times it would be too much for us to handle and the pressure we would feel to live up to that would crush us. So He gives it us one piece at a time.

The Best For My Children

While my children are 3 and 1 years old right now, I can relate to this. In my heart I already want the best for them. I want to put them in the best situations so that they can succeed. My heart wants them to accomplish something great. I’m already beginning to plan things out so that I can give them the best options possible. God does the same for us. Just like I wouldn’t tell my 3 year old son, all of the lessons, classes, and skills that are in my heart for him to do. God doesn’t tell us everything.

My son is not ready for that right now. He wouldn’t understand and instead of pursuing the plan, he’d probably quit, pick up his Thomas the Train toys, and play.

What’s Most Important

I believe the key is to know that God has a plan for us. But like a little child, we can’t throw a temper-tantrum when we don’t know the whole plan. Let’s continue to seek Him for the next step. Then be diligent and have the consistency to complete those steps.

This is how we can begin to know what our assignment is from God.

What steps have you taken to know your assignment?