I pray that you had a great Thanksgiving. Hopefully we made more memories than grievances. Thanksgiving has changed so much that Black Friday almost is its own holiday. Hopefully you enjoyed it to the fullest. It is funny to me how we can be thankful one day and then stampede over other people to go shopping and catch a deal the very next day.
As I write this post, I’m sitting at the dining room table at my mother’s house. I can proudly say that we did not do any Black Friday shopping this year. It was a really good day, we were able to eat leftovers, go to the movies and relax the whole day.
Value People
Spending the day in another person’s company is a lost art. Having this time together with my family showed me that it should not be just about the deals and monetary things.
The above quote is something that I came across and I thought it was a good reminder for the season that we are in. With Black Friday following Thanksgiving, we can quickly forget what we are thankful for and it shouldn’t be that way.
What Others See
This quote just shows us one way on how to raise children with values. This quote could apply to every relationship that we have. If we want to be have good friendships, then spend twice as much time with those people and half as much money. It makes sense if we think about it. Those things that are valuable to us require time and not just money.
Money can’t fix everything. The things that we value in life need our time. They need our attention. We can’t simply say that we want to have good relationships, a successful marriage, raise good children, all of those things require our time.
There are people that watch everything that we do. Not just our children, but our neighbors, extended family, and everything that we post on social media are all eyes watching us. What we put out there matters. There are so many people that are watching us.
We can be double minded and not realize it. We will say things like we value family and spending time with those that we love on Thanksgiving then not even 24 hours later we are running people over for a new tv, while our kids our watching us??? Why do everything we can and end up being the meanest person on Black Friday for a deal on a new tv.
Discussion Question: How do you model your values?